The Two Most Common Existential Fears & How to Deal with them
The fear of doing something wrong or the fear of losing something are the two most common existential fears. There was a time that I...
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Why You Should Care About the Difference Between Your Limitations and Devotion
The river doesn’t try to grow beyond its banks just to prove it can be bigger. The tree doesn’t feed the leaves with nutrients and fluids...
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When You’re Lost, Do This.
Stop. Take a deep breath, preferably sit on a bench in the fresh air or on the naked earth. When you’re lost, the slower you can go, the...
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The Currency of Your Self-Esteem
In the summer I go to my friend’s house and after a chat and perhaps a glass of wine we leave our stuff at her place and walk barefoot in...
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Asking for Help Without Shame or Fear
Suffering is a big word, and a very popular one in Buddhism. I know many people who’d say that they are not suffering even though they...
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Your Vulnerability Under the Light of Love
When my teacher Christopher Titmuss invited me in 2002 to join him on a retreat in Germany, and then to England, I left my job as a...
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False and True Security
“The truth is, most of us discover where we are headed when we arrive” ~Bill Watterson Our ideas and beliefs act like stepping-stones...
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Getting Rid of Self-Judgment so You Can Return to Love
Love cannot come out of judgment but ironically judgment always stems out of love When Nora came to me she was after a year-long break, a...
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A Confession of a Struggle
It was a bit windy and chilly but I needed a walk. I went down to the Glatt river just five minutes walk from my house where the water is...
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How Not Accepting Makes You More Alive
As it is necessary to open our heart in order to feel love, it is necessary to offer a safe home to the orphan pieces within us in order...
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