Did you grow up believing it’s their job to keep their mother stable, calm, or emotionally intact? I’ve seen how this instinct becomes a lifelong survival response—one that feels like love, but functions like self-abandonment. This post unpacks why you were never meant to save your mum, how fused relationships form, and what shifts when you finally put that burden down.

Childhood can feel like blank spaces, but those gaps don’t mean nothing happened. Your body holds the moments that shaped your sense of belonging, even when your mind can’t access them. This post looks at breaking generational trauma, how the mother wound lives in the body, and why somatic healing helps you return to who you truly are.

Shift from feeling ‘I’ve got no choice’ being your mum's financial provider to discovering what’s hidden from your view