Done trying to forgive, accept or understand your mum? Join the workshop on April 24th, It's Not About Forgiveness
IT'S NOT ABOUT FORGIVENESS
A Relational & Somatic Workshop For UnderMothered Women
EARLY-BIRD BONOUS ---- 8 WOMEN ONLY
Free 1:1 with Shelly (worth 195CHF) when you join within 24 hours of opening
Registration opens Friday, April 17 · Workshop Friday, April 24, 5:30-7pm CET
DATE
FORMAT
INVESTMENT
Friday, April 24
5:30-7pm CET
Online, live experience
No recording
77 CHF
(99$)
You’ve spent years trying to understand, forgive or fix your relationship with your mother — and now you want to find what's possible when you centre around yourself instead
You've grown into an accomplished woman despite everything your mother couldn't give you
And somewhere you've always known that carrying the weight of her emotional world was never meant to be your burden.
It’s time to de-centre your mother’s feelings and the exhausting work of trying to change her — and finally heal your mother wound
Registration open on Friday, April 17th
EARLY BIRD SPECIAL BONUS:
1:1 FREE SESSION FOR THE FIRST 8 WOMEN
Workshop happens on Friday, April 24 5:30-7:00pm CET. Investment: 79chf (~99$)
You’ve been to therapy, cultivated spiritual practice, had a conversation with your mum or just ignored the cringe and burning frustration each time someone says “you only have one mother, she did her best, why won't you forgive/accept/understand her.“
And because you probably heard those comments from your therapist too, for a long time you focused on finding resolve for your mother wound by becoming the emotionally mature one, the psychologically stable and understanding one.
BUT YOU CAN'T KEEP HITTING THE SAME WALL WHEN YOU REALISE YOU STILL HAVEN'T "FORGIVEN"- OR FOUND PEACE WITH YOUR COMPLEX RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR MUM
Here’s what no one tells you:
Forgiving, understanding or accepting your mother was never your responsibility to carry.
It was placed on you — by your mother, by family, by a society that needed you to make peace so everyone else could be comfortable.
EVERY TIME SOMEONE SAID THAT, THE REAL WOUND WIDENED A LITTLE MORE.
After working with dozens of women like you from around the world I’ve witnessed the one thing that leads to finally healing your mother wound and it’s not forgiveness.
I’ve seen how crucial it is for women to de-centre their mum and everyone’s messages about forgiveness and acceptance so they can finally find a sense of completion and restore inner authority.
You're invited
It's Not About Forgiveness
A Relational & Somatic Workshop for Undermothered Women
Who’re Done Carrying the Burden of Trying to Fix, Forgive or Understand their Mother
And are Ready to Recentre Around Your Own Life Force
🌻 Discover some of the beliefs or habits that keep you looping in your complex relationship, and stand between you and the resolution you so badly want
🌻 Experience in a subtle yet profound, felt-sense way what can happen when you begin to find resolution in yourself - without anyone (or anything) else changing
This is a live workshop where you’ll:
How this workshop works
🌻 90 mins live meeting– we’ll focus on real time experience and connection
🌻 Cameras on – making connection and feeling safe in being vulnerable can’t happen with black squares. You’re welcome to bring your snacks and drink, lie down or make yourself comfortable in any way you wish, just as if you were in an in-person gathering
🌻 A recording is not available—Teaching will be woven into the practices and into the responses to your sharing and questions. Unlike a webinar, this workshop is designed for you to integrate insight as it happens — not just take notes to process later.
All the deets
🌻 DATE: Friday, April 24, 5:30-7:00pm CET
(4:30-6:00pm BTS, 11:30am-1:30pm EST)
🌻 REGISTRATION OPENS: Friday, April 17th
🌻 EARLY-BIRD BONUS: The first 8 women to sign up within 24 hours receive a complimentary one-on-one healing the mother wound session* with Shelly, worth 195CHF (~245$)
🌻 INVESTMENT: 79CHF (~99$)
*to be fulfilled by May 17th
Hi, I'm Shelly
A trauma-informed, Hakomi therapist
And I never planned on becoming an expert on dysfunctional relationships between mothers and daughters.
After my mother left me homeless at the age 16, with no dolls or picture album to remember my albeit neglectful and abusive childhood, all I wanted to do was run away as far as possible from looking back.
When my “perfect married life” didn’t change my peanut-size self-esteem, and the unsolicited comments people shared about my relationship with my mother kept me feeling invisible, I finally began to heal my mother wound I turned my childhood story on its head, ending up as the mother wound therapist I now wish I’d had years ago.
And because I’ve spent hours in the company of beautiful women like you over the past two decades, helping dozens of women from around the world heal the wounds of a complex relationship with their mother, I know better than anyone how solitary the mother wound struggle can be.
I also know how shaming and judgmental it can feel when someone expects an undermothered daughter to take on the emotional burden and responsibility to forgive, accept or understand her mother.
This workshop is for you if:
🌻You’re done being told to forgive, accept or understand — and are ready to try something else that leads to a sense of completion
🌻 You’ve done therapy, read the books, named your mother wound issues — and want to actually get to the healing part
🌻 You understand your mother wound — but understanding it hasn't shifted it. You’re ready to shift from feeling ignored and dismissed to reclaiming your inner authority and agency
🌻 You feel the weight of the relationship even when she isn't in the room
🌻 You’re tired of your healing depending on waiting for something she may never give you
🌻 You want first-hand experience of what somatic mother wound work actually feels like
🌻 You're estranged from your mother or she passed away but you still carry that relationship within you and wonder how you could sever the ties and be free from the emotional weight this relationship brought into your life
FAQ
I believe that every women who ‘s offered the space to define what healing looks like for her, believes in herself and can finally heal her mother wound
Join the waitlist below so you’re first to know when registration opens, and if you’re one of the first 8 women to sign up, you’ll receive a complementary 1:1 call with Shelly